- Your 2025 Reality Check: Why “It Worked Last Year” Doesn’t Mean Much Now
- Getting Your Identity Right: SPF, DKIM, and DMARC
- How ISPs Score You Now: Reputation Beyond a Single IP
- Warming Domains and IPs in 2025 Without Looking Like a Warmup Farm
- List Entry Points: Keeping Bad Data Out
- Content Patterns That Raise Flags vs. Messages That Slide Through
- Turning Best Practices into a 90-Day Deliverability Reset
- The Lesson Underneath Every Fix
Last Updated on December 9, 2025 by Ewen Finser
Do you remember the first time your tried-and-true campaign stopped working and your open rates plummeted? Me too. I’d send the same content to the same list using the same platform… only to one day see replies drop massively, and with them, the revenue.
Turns out, most of those emails weren’t landing in the inbox anymore.
This has become even more common in 2025, now that internet service providers have brought in stricter rules for bulk senders. To further complicate things, Apple’s privacy changes have made open-rate metrics almost useless.
So today, I’m breaking down what it takes to get read in 2025. If you want to send emails at scale without landing in the spam folder, this one’s for you.
Your 2025 Reality Check: Why “It Worked Last Year” Doesn’t Mean Much Now
For a long time, email filters were borderline rudimentary. You could blast to your list, avoid obvious spam traps, keep complaints low, and mostly be fine. It was great while it lasted (at least for senders).
But now, mailbox providers build a profile around who you are (your domain and subdomains) and how people react to you over time. It’s less “how many emails did you send?” and more “do people even want them?”
Gmail and Yahoo have also introduced stricter rules for bulk senders. They now expect you to:
- Send from fully authenticated domains (SPF, DKIM, DMARC in place).
- Keep spam complaints even lower than before (below 0.3%).
- Give people an easy unsubscribe option (and honor it).
Besides that, thanks to Apple’s Mail Privacy Protection, a significant number of “opens” are now just Apple pre-loading images. When I first saw a 40% open rate on a domain with a medium reputation, I thought I’d won the lottery. Turns out, the campaign actually performed worse than usual while showing almost double the normal open rate.
That’s why deliverability today relies more on things you can’t fake as easily: clicks, replies, spam reports, and how often people delete your emails without reading them.
So if you still think in terms of “ESP + template” instead of “identity + behavior,” you’re running a 2025 program with a 2017 mindset… and that won’t get you very far.
Getting Your Identity Right: SPF, DKIM, and DMARC

Before I even think about content or segments, I always check: who does this email look like it’s coming from? If that identity is unclear, everything else becomes damage control.
Here’s the simple breakdown of how it all works:
- SPF tells email services which servers are allowed to send mail for your domain.
- DKIM adds a secure signature that proves the message wasn’t changed on the way.
- DMARC tells providers what to do if SPF or DKIM don’t match your domain.
That means your From address, DKIM domain, and return-path / envelope domain shouldn’t look like three unrelated brands. If they do, spam filters assume something shady is going on.
One easy way to mess this up is to have your marketing tool, CRM, helpdesk, and billing system all sending as the same brand while only one of them has SPF and DKIM set up correctly. If you keep getting SPF softfails, missing DKIM, or “dmarc=fail” in bounce logs, it usually means one of your tools is sending without a proper DNS setup.
Luckily, you don’t have to fix this by hand. Postmark’s DNS helpers, dmarcian, and other tools can all walk you through the setup.
How ISPs Score You Now: Reputation Beyond a Single IP
Just keeping an eye on your IP reputation isn’t enough — in 2025, mailbox providers judge you mostly by your domain, sending practices, and subscriber engagement.
From their side, things that matter are:
- Hard bounces: Addresses that simply can’t receive mail.
- Spam complaints: “This is spam” clicks, not unsubscribes.
- Engagement: Opens, clicks, replies, deletes, “mark as important” flags, and “move out of spam” commands.
The numbers tell you what’s happening under the hood:
- If your hard bounce rate stays above ~2%, it almost always means your list has bad data: old imports, typos, or no validation.
- If complaints jump after one campaign, something in the promise was probably off: the wrong audience, a misleading subject, or a sudden change in tone.
Gmail’s Postmaster Tools and Microsoft SNDS can help here. They won’t fix any problems, but they can give you a hint on whether the issue is your list, your content, or how mailbox providers view your domain.
Warming Domains and IPs in 2025 Without Looking Like a Warmup Farm

When you start sending emails from a brand-new domain or IP, mailbox filters treat you like a new number in their phone. Warming up is just the process of easing that number into their memory: start small, get good engagement, and slowly send more.
Older warm-up tools abused that idea by blasting fake opens and clicks from random mailboxes — all day, every day. It worked for a while, but mailbox providers eventually caught on because the timing was identical, the behavior was predictable, and nothing looked like real user activity.
In 2025, that doesn’t help. It can even hurt you.
The solution is simple:
- Start with people who already know you: Recent buyers, active users, or subscribers who clicked something in the last 30–60 days.
- Include real traffic first: Receipts, password resets, onboarding emails… anything else that proves you’re a real sender with a goal in mind.
- Increase volume in steps: Increase by steps instead of leaps, and don’t change your From name or tone every week. Email filters like consistency.
Tool-wise, I treat warmup as a stack. Native warm-up features in outreach tools (Smartlead, Instantly, and similar platforms) help me ramp up each mailbox slowly. Then, I add a seed and engagement tool like InboxAlly (https://www.inboxally.com/) and testing lists from GlockApps (https://glockapps.com/) to see where my emails end up.
List Entry Points: Keeping Bad Data Out
There are a lot of ways your email program can look like it’s growing.
People sign up for freebies and discount codes all the time, internal teams upload “definitely recent” spreadsheets, and your CRM and support tools all add these contacts into the same database. On paper, it looks like growth, but that’s usually where trouble begins.
These entry points tend to attract three kinds of risky addresses:
- Disposable inboxes that someone used once
- Invalid addresses (usually from typos) that will bounce forever
- Role accounts like info@ or support@ that almost never engage
One or two duds isn’t a big deal, but in large numbers, they wreck the most important metrics for deliverability.
Even in my own campaigns, whole segments can underperform for weeks simply because I was careless. The moment I go back to real-time checks with something like Kickbox or ZeroBounce, the bounce rate drops and reputation starts improving.
The rule I follow in 2025 is simple: clean the water at the source. That is, validate emails when they’re submitted and stop importing old CSVs without checking them. When your list starts with good data, every other deliverability tactic becomes easier, cheaper, and far more predictable.
Content Patterns That Raise Flags vs. Messages That Slide Through
I feel like deliverability has been talked about to death, yet a lot of advice on deliverability is very shallow: “don’t say ‘free’,” “don’t use caps,” “limit exclamation marks.”
But most of that won’t help much. Email filters have simply outgrown single-word triggers.
You should still steer clear of spammy terms, of course, but that’s not the whole picture. So what else should you look at?
Email Layouts

The layouts that tend to cause trouble in 2025 are the ones that feel like billboards: huge images, barely any text, and every link running through a tracking domain that looks nothing like your own. It starts to look like brute-force automation, especially if you’re using a subject line that you’ve already used ten times before (“Quick question about your account…”).
Personalization
Personalization is great… unless you’re just making things up. If your email says “we noticed you doing X” when the person never did X, people won’t complain — they’ll just stop trusting you. If they’re opened at all, these emails get no clicks and fewer replies, and they’re more likely to get deleted on sight.
The Technical Side
Broken or bloated HTML does its own kind of damage. Years of copy-paste can leave you with tangled code, stray tags, and templates that render badly in Outlook.
Mismatched link domains don’t help either; if every visible URL says “yourbrand.com” but the actual link is “randomtracker.io,” that looks suspicious.
Stick to simpler layouts with readable text, clear expectations from subject line to CTA, and honest previews without clickbait. If people keep opening, clicking, and replying across several campaigns, your messages will be considered useful.
Turning Best Practices into a 90-Day Deliverability Reset
You won’t fix bad deliverability with one clever subject line. You’ll need to implement a focused run of changes that build on each other — 90 days is usually enough to see whether you’re turning the ship or just repainting it.
Week 1–2
The first couple of weeks are about getting your setup in order. This is when I check SPF, DKIM, and DMARC to make sure every platform sending mail under the brand is authenticated the same way. Gmail Postmaster Tools and Microsoft SNDS also get switched on here so I can see how inbox providers judge the domain.
Next, I validate the core sending segments to remove addresses that never had a chance of working. After all, there’s no point running tests if half the list can’t receive mail in the first place.
Week 3–6
I then focus on how messages are sent out. I start by breaking the list into groups based on activity, starting with the people who still interact, and moving outward from there. Cold subscribers get a slower pace — this does not mean fewer messages forever but a gentler approach while the domain regains stability.
This is also where I bring in warm-up and engagement tools like InboxAlly to help inbox placement settle into a steady pattern instead of bouncing around. https://thedigitalmerchant.com/how-to-find-spam-trap-emails-easily/
Week 7–12
This is the refinement stage. It’s when I watch which groups bounce back first, which campaigns have increased complaints, and what seed tests say about folder placement. Inactive or risky segments are added back slowly, not all at once.
Templates also get simplified here, based on what people click or reply to — not what looks nice in a design file.
What the Results Show

By the end of the 90 days, the numbers make the call for you: bounces, complaints, seed test results, and active segment size either move in the right direction or they don’t.
The Lesson Underneath Every Fix
Email filtering has become a judgment system that watches how you behave over time and whether people want your messages in their day.
Once that clicks, the whole mission of delivering emails changes. You stop hunting for hacks and start building sending habits that make sense to humans first. The tools and metrics become less about fixing deliverability and more about realizing that your relationships are moving in the wrong direction.
With that mindset in place, the work stabilizes, and email deliverability becomes predictable and firmly under your control.
